7000 Year's Culture
Religion and family life make up a
cornerstone of Egyptian culture. Its religion, Islamic or
Christian, provides the strong unifying bond between family
members, friends, as well as strangers. Egypt is one of the very
few nations left in the world, where strangers actually greet
each other in the streets. In short, the life of an Egyptian
usually revolves around the dictated values of his or her
religion. Nevertheless, the dichotomy that is inherent in the
Egyptian way of life cannot, by all means, be underestimated.
In the rural areas, the inhabitants still live the traditional
life of their ancestors. The villagers , more commonly known as
the " Fallahin " , depend entirely on agriculture and live in
very modest mud-brick houses. These mud-brick houses usually
consist of just one large room which holds the entire family. In
t his patriarchal community, decision making invariably falls to
the head of the family, namely the husband. Male chauvinism is
also an inherent part of the community and young girls are given
very little freedom as compared to her brothers.
Family ties are very strong, and neighbors are usually treated
as family. Sexual relations between unmarried couples are
strictly forbidden, and are looked down upon as being unchaste,
as well as a great religious offense. For Muslims, drinking
alcohol, gambling, or eating pork are also strongly forbidden .
This traditional system of Egyptian values managed to find its
way into the urban societies, but with a few variations here and
there, urban communities tend to lead a more modern and
westernized lifestyle. As you move up the social scale, this
westernization seems to increase, and of course with McDonalds
just around the block, the younger generations have completely
adopted the “ American ” way of life , creating a huge gap
between parents and their younger , more “open-minded”
children.
The two largest cities are Cairo and Alexandria, and because of
the extreme centralization we have in Egypt, both cities are the
heart of the country and everything revolves around them. Urban
migration has been too common in Egypt for the past 20 years,
stretching Cairo’s population beyond all limits. In general,
Egyptians are renowned for there kindness, patience, and extreme
sense of humor. They are extremely patriotic, and any offense to
t heir nation, culture or religion will not be tolerated. On the
other hand, you’ll notice that they are extremely helpful,
friendly, and always smiling. Many Egyptians speak English as a
second language, ( some speak French ), and so communicating
with them should not be a problem. Egyptian men love to flirt,
to smoke " Sheesha ", and most of all they love soccer. The two
most popular soccer teams are " Ahly " and " Zamalek ", mention
them and you’re bound to strike a conversation.
Watching soccer is probably the number one form of male
recreation in the country, along with going to "Al-Ahwa " ( the
coffee shop ) to smoke " Sheesha ", play backgammon, and drink
tea. To socialize with the men, it's usually about politics,
women, or soccer. With women, it's usually just gossip or
cooking. Most of Egyptian women are housewives, with the husband
providing all the income. Only among the upper class and the
younger generations you'll find working women. As far religion
is concerned , most men and women are considered religious ,
with just a few extremists here and there . You may recognize
the extremists by their long unshaved beard and very short hair.
Usually they have a spot of dead skin on their foreheads from
excessive praying.
Unlike what is said, there is no threat from these people, they
simply mind their own business.
You’ll notice that the people are quite conservative when it
comes to dress code. They don’t wear shorts in the summer, even
though it gets really hot. Only in summer resorts, by swimming
pools, or by the beach may you see them in shorts and swimsuits.
Rural men wear long white robes, known as " Galabiya ", while
urban men wear pants ( often jeans depending on how westernized
) and shirts. Most Egyptian women are veiled, covering their
hair with a piece of cloth, known as " Hejab ", and wearing long
sleeves. Nevertheless with the increasing westernization, many
have discarded the veil, and dress normally like European women
on the conservative side. As with the younger generations, they
just follow the latest “ American ” fashion trends: Levis, hot
pants, tight shorts, tight skirts, bikinis etc... |